Am I Missing Something???

[kovet (deleted)]

I have been checkin this site out for a minute and I have not gotten one single notice from anyone. I don't think I'm a bad looking person and I believe I have a few things going for me. Granted I haven't been with a plethora of women outside my race but I am now trying to figure out if I'm doin somethin wrong lol.

[steffycakes]

`u probably aren`t.
this dating site just seems dead or something.
unless we are both doing something wrong cuz i haven`t got shyt either lol.

[mochadream112]

`I am getting the same thing. I guess the sight really is kind of dead.

[deloris9]

`THANK YALL

SO MUCH,I THOUGHT IT WAS ME..LOL

[bonedealer64]

All I can say is just look at other profiles and leave that person a message. Though honestly, an email works better. I have only met two women on here who continually talk to me, but they are both great and fun to talk to. All I had to do was tell them what I thought about them. I don't see why the same wouldn't work for you. And I am sure all of you are great people. =]

[iwantusobad (deleted)]

Yea i just joined very recent (2 or 3 days in) The site does seem to be dead a bit, for my ebony queen though.. ill stick around

What i have been doing is just getting out as many requests as i possibly can to women im attracted to and would like to get better acquainted with and just hope for the best

[ladydark84]

`Yall better start posting and showing ya bodies! Closed mouths don't get fed!!! LMAO!!

[lrai (deleted)]

`Over a year later from the previous post and about 2.5 from the original, but still on the first page. Site is still pretty dead I guess...

[luvandhappiness (deleted)]

Here is my take on it... we should stop putting limits on love. Love is love... in what ever form that it comes. If the person is 1 inch shorter than you like, are you really gonna not at least see if it's worth the chance for happiness (sigh, so many do however)? You have to put yourself out there. It can be scary, especially when you've had your heart crushed. Now we are cautious and guarding it. Remember, everyone else is doing the same.

You know who you are (you should!) and be confident in that. There is someone out there that will click with you, that feels the way you do about life, love and relationship. They need to know that you are worthy of their time. If you are far apart, they need to know that you are worthy of the distance it may take to get to them, on and on so forth.

Don't limit love, but embrace it and be happy. We are all here for the same reasons... looking for love, looking to connect and be happy.

Guys... stop treating women badly and messing it up for other guys... ladies... get to really know that guy and stay true to yourself and don't let him hound you. Come on ya'all.

So peoples... lets get to luv'in. Haha.

[onelove748 (deleted)]

`I don't think this site is dead, I haven't had any problems. Men, don't wait on the ladies, be a man. Ladies, they will find you, and it doesn't hurt to send a hug to someone if your really feeling there profile. Good luck, everyone!!!!


Luvandhappiness.....that's so true!!!!