Tink1972, 53

I am looking for a strong black man I am looking for a strong black man, It isn't just physical strength that attracts me, it is the mind, ones ability to be a real man, to be the leader, to take charge and just do what is supposed to come naturally for a man. I tend to be on the submissive side and I'm just not attracted to passive men or men who will let you run them around.
I am not looking to simply "---- --" In fact if that term is used I will probably delete your message because it is so much more that I am looking for. I enjoy giving and doing those nice little things for the right man, it's just part of who I am. Right now I am separated, soon to be divorced and for the past few years simply have not been given the attention that I crave or deserve. I need to know your real, I need to know you want me, I refuse to pursue or chase after your tail... You need to chase after mine.
I want to click on a multitude of levels, I know there will be things that don't match perfectly, and I don't mind giving you a foot rub while you watch a boring basketball game but we need to share some common interests, I don't want to sit at home every night and watch tv... been there, done that! Make me feel alive, make me feel like I need you more than I need my next breath of air