Tamspurple, 43

Newly Single, Looking to date I am just looking to date, whatever happens happens. I am a single black female. I have a job and my own apartment. I am independent, strong, open-minded, honest, loyal, clean, funny, blunt. I say what I feel when I feel. I am a big girl, and am okay with that. I can be a little self-conscious but I have my confidence. I love music and am open to all kinds but I LOVE ROCK! I love to cook, read, go to the movies, go out to eat, concerts. I am pretty much game for anything. I consider myself to be pretty liberal. My goal here lately has been to save money, buy a car, and get back in school. I would like to be a caterer because I love to cook and want to work for myself.As far as what I am looking for, I would like someone who is funny, open-minded, fun, honest, down to earth, understanding and mature. Someone who understands that I want to take things slow. Looks are not the most important thing but I have got to be attracted to you. I love a tall, strong man. Someone who is gonna bring as much to the table as I do. NO SCRUBS!! I have dated white boys since I was 14 and I tend to prefer white men but am open to all races. If interested in getting to know me better hit me up!!