Plumpnsweet, 52

I am very attracted to black men ng for a career and family oriented man.

I am a 38 year old mother of four daughters ages 10-12-14-16. I am a undergrad student at VSU and I am currently enrolled in he Biology Program but plan to go into exercise physiology in the spring. I want to go to medical school afterwards. I am looking for a man that is honest, trust worthy, family and career oriented and someone who loves to communicate and spend time with me when he can and just keep it real at all times. I need some one who will support my goals and dreams and encourage me not discourage me. I want a man to uplift me not bring me down. I am very intimate and I am a very intimate woman a very compassionate woman. I am honest good woman. I dont lie, cheat or steal or play head games..too old for all that and it doesnt make sense to even play games...when it comes to matters of the heart, one should keep in mind, the heart is easily broken but not easily repaired. My therory is hurt me with a truth not a lie. I mean keep it real at all times and communicate with me. Communication is very important to me its right up ther with being honest and trust worthy. I am more than willing to treat my man like a king, i just want him to allow me to walk beside him as his queen.. My kids are very important to me and they are first and foremost in my life and any man in my life needs to understand that. I am not looking for a daddy for them, they have one, but whoever is in my life needs to be a good role model for my girls. One thing to mention you cannot meet my kids until you and i get to know each other and spend time together. I feel like it is inappropriate to bring men in and out of my life and theirs so I dont operate that way. When it is time, you will meet my kids, so with that said, if you come and see me it needs to be a pick up date and we spend time outside my home together until its time to bring my kids in the picture. I hope you understand that and respect that, if not, you are not the one for me.