Light Chocolate Looking for Vanilla For 25+ years, I've only been involved with males of my own race, so now I'm seeking something different.
I tend to be shy but am a real cut-up once I'm comfortable with you. I also have a very even temper and it takes a lot for me to really blow up. However, that does not mean that I'm a doormat, for I will stick up for myself.
I have three teens, but one will be leaving home for college in 2.5 weeks. Then in another 2 years, I expect to have an empty nest. At that time, I would like to travel and, hopefully, move out of Youngstown.
I have a variety of interests, including reading, writing, flexing my creative muscles, surf the web, watch movies, and just plain relaxing. Insofar as out of the house activities, I like to go bowling, play putt-putt golf, walk in the park, and go fishing. I'd also like to try rock climbing, which is odd, as I also have a fear of heights.
Phatthi, 56
currently offline
Youngstown, OH, USA
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Light Chocolate Looking for Vanilla
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'09"
Weight
190 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
writing, computers, internet, video games, movies, reading, television
Body Type
pleasantly plump
Movies
romantic comedy, romance, horror, drama, sci-fi, comedy, action
Orientation
bisexual, straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
black
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
yes - single parent home
Education Level
college grad
Profession
Clerical / Administrative, Artistic / Musical
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
no
I currently live
with pets, with kids
Socially, I am
better in small groups, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
democrat, liberal
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Fast Food, Junk Food Junkie, Soul Food
Personality
romantic, lover, liberal, introvert, intellectual
Individuality
tattoos
Religious Views
Christian, Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
the yin to my yang, fun, dating, soulmate, something interesting, romance, relationship, mr. right now, mr. right
My Sign
libra : sept. 23-oct. 22
Pets
Cats
Gender
Female
Music
Rock, R and B, Pop, Motown, Jazz, Hip Hop, Christian Rock
Hair Style
short hair
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, internet, mime, movies, music, photography, reading, running, shopping, sports, target practice, television, travel, video games, working out, writing, yoga
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, fit, large, pleasantly plump, supermodel
Movies
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, bald, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red, white / gray
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander
Relationship
divorced, single, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - do not want kids, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Fashion Industry / Modeling / Beauty, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000, Less than $25,000
Do they smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker, socially
Do they drink?
no, socially
They currently live
alone, with kids, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
a couch potato, better in small groups, comic relief, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick
Political Views
democrat, independent, liberal, progressive, the liberal democrats (uk), the liberal party (canada)
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Omnivore, Soul Food, Spicy
Personality
extrovert, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, jock, liberal, lover, nerd, pirate, preppy, professional, romantic
Individuality
beard, goatee, mime, piercings, pirate at heart, psychic, stache, tattoos, vampire
Religious Views
Christian, Deist, Not Religious, but Spiritual
They are looking for
dating, friends - with benefits, miss right, miss right now, relationship, romance, something REALLY hot, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Their Sign
aquarius : jan. 20–feb. 18, aries : march 21–april 19, cancer : june 21–july 22, capricorn : dec. 22–jan. 19, gemini : may 21-june 20, i don't believe in zodiac signs, i was born in april, i was born in august, i was born in december, i was born in february, i was born in january, i was born in july, i was born in june, i was born in march, i was born in may, i was born in november, i was born in october, i was born in september, leo : july 23–aug. 22, libra : sept. 23–oct. 22, pisces : feb. 19–march 20, sagittarius : nov. 22–dec. 21, scorpio : oct. 23–nov. 21, taurus : april 20–may 20, virgo : aug. 23–sept. 22
Pets
Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Farm Animal, Farm Animals, Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse, Horses, Pot-Bellied Pig, Rabbit, Rabbits, Rock, Small Furry Creature, Snake, Snakes, Tribbles, Turtle, Turtles
Gender
Male
Music
Rock, Christian Rock, Country, Hip Hop, Indie, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Motown, Pop, R and B
Hair Style
buzz cut, cornrows, crew cut, dreadlocks, flattop, shaved head, short hair
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