Notyouraverage, 41

Not your average Residential Advisor and student majoring in Family Studies,Human Services and American Ethnic Studies. I am interested in working w/ troubled inner city youth and/or something in the arena of drug and alchohol rehabilitation. I'm very down to earth and laid back. At times I can be very quiet and reserved which some people see as me being withdrawn,stand-offish,or stuck up but that's not the case, I just like to observe what's going on around me. Once I'm comfortable with people or my surroundings I'm much more open. At a point in my life where i'm tired of the same 'ole same 'ole. Just trying something new.Attracted to someone with a good head on his shoulders. Must have goals and ambitions and has stepped into the role of a grown man, i'm not looking to deal w/childish games. I must find him attractive but simply being cute isn't enough. He must have some substance, looks fade and then where does that leave us?...lol. The age min of 25 and max of 30 are pretty much set in stone w/the exception of an extremely rare case that I am completely taken by someone a little younger or older....lol