Musik2myears, 43

When I'm not working or running around I write while listening to music. I feel as if I can connect to song lyrics and beats to help me understand life and how it is something that should never be taken for granted. My friends say that I'm on the silly side, always laughing or making people laugh. I do like to have fun but I am responsible when needed. When I write poetry and stories because it helps me express how I feel. On some of my relaxing days I like to cook then watch a movie or walk in the park. I love to travel and try new things. I watch sports and am not your typical "girly girl." I think high maintenance chics are overrated and annoying.

If there is a good guy who is caring, not too serious, can stay in or hit the clubs, honest, drama free, responsible, and enjoys life as much as I do I would like to meet him. I feel any man should have a passion for something and have a life, but also want to share it with someone special.

I've dated men in my race and outside my race and I've noticed that my relationships have been better when I dated outside. However, I am open minded and the more important things to me in a relationship is trust, communication, and growing together.