I prefer men who do not have VERY young children. I have nothing at all against children (obviously - since I have four!) but I feel like I've spent the last 22 years raising kids and I'm ready for some freedom and would like a man who also has the ability to go on trips, spend time with me, etc.. Older kids are fine. My kids are all grown, with the exception of my baby girl, who is an upcoming senior in high school. Please have a "real" job (meaning, you don't work for your cousin part-time getting paid cash under the table, two days a week), a vehicle... and it would be great if you didn't live with your mother. I'm not hating, but come on, we're old enough to have our stuff together by now...aren't we?? 
Also, I'm not looking to get married anytime soon...if EVER....but I am definitely looking for a committed relationship with one man. I realize this may sound a little harsh but I do believe in people being straight up about what they want.PS...Please don't talk to me if you're just looking for someone to hang out with and/or get laid. Save us both the headache and wasted time - because I promise you, I won't put up with it. Nor will I be part of your "rotation" and I'm completely not interested if you aren't 100% sure you are looking for a one on one committed relationship. I'm tired of guys who only want to see me when it's convenient for THEM. Selfishness will not be tolerated and I say that in the nicest way possible. It's about give and take. Not take and take.
