Kandykisses0303, 39

Interested in you being interested in me.... I'm TRULY an independent woman. Life has taught me that if u really want anything done, the only person besides God u can rely on is urself. I'm pretty educated, so I expect anyone that I date 2 be intellectually sound and capable. I've done what it takes in life so that I can honestly say, I am my own, I make my own, and I do my own. I have a "Crew" who's there 4 me whenever I need them, so all this "trickin'" is gonna get u nowhere with me. I might not have what u do, but I'm definitely proud of mine, and although any sound person likes a good time, please recognize that I don't NEED ur money, cars, clothes etc. 2 make me happy. Respect from me comes when u can show who u r inside and exhibit confidence in who u r. I believe a person's personality is simply the interpretation of a reflection on how they treat others. I'll let u judge me 4 urself, and respect u 4 ur honesty, no matter how raw it may be. I will say I'm 100% loyal tho; I'll always b true 2 myself and 2 those around me- u'll either love or hate me cuz I ALWAYS keep it real, respectfully.


Realistically, I've found that I fall 4 guys who can make me laugh and who challenge me intellectually. U have 2 have an opinion and be ready 2 defend it, backing down from me is a huge turnoff. I do NOT like to be courted, swooned, or "swept off my feet" at all. Just be cool with me, talk 2 me like u would one of the guys (most of my friends are guys, so trust me, I can keep up). I don't discriminate, and find guys from all creeds and colors desirable, so I really don't have too many physical requirements. I will say that I prefer a man who is taller than me, and he ABSOLUTELY CANNOT be a smoker.

I also love sports and anything competitive. I'm a basketball official, but I also play softball and flag football (when I find a good league). On a date, I'd like for him to show me his fun, competitive side by taking me 2 do something recreational. Combine that with a nice meal (cuz I LOVE