Jackieinsav, 49

I'm not Afraid of Who I Am, Are You? I am divorced and enjoy being single. I am at the point in my life where a casual friendship would be better than a relationship. I exercise, though I am not fanatical about it. I cook healthy, if I cook at all. I do enjoy chocolate cake on occasion, too. I prefer a night in, watching movies and drinking wine, than a night out hitting the bars. I have my own home, but don't mind visiting yours, or having you to mine.
I would like to find someone that is not looking for their next wife. Men that are secure enough to know when it is time to go home at night, or in the morning, without me having to say it's time to leave. You should also be the type that can accept that I have a life but can still enjoy the casual friendship of a man on a quiet evening. I don't have an age preference but if you are younger you should be mature. I am also attracted to older, distinguished men.
I am most attracted to strong, confident men. Men that are big (in every way) have always been a weakness for me. I think it is simply the contrast between their size and mine.
Given the choice between two otherwise equal men I will choose the one that isn't afraid to say what he wants and expects, over the shy, unsure man.
I love working in my vegetable garden in the evenings and enjoying a glass of wine.
Say hi, we can chat on yahoo.
I also enjoy the beach and I love boating.