Eclecstellar, 39

Strong Eclectic Frame of Mind ***I have been on this site for almost a month and no one has contacted me so far. I'm wondering if anybody sees my profile***

I am looking for a partner for life, someone I can settle down with. I am willing to give internet dating a try with the condition of meeting in person soon. I am not interested in exchanging frivolous messages and wasting time. I am an eclectic and versatile type of person so my hobbies vary. I love to read, I love live performances, Broadway shows, concerts, movies, poetry reading, spoken word, stand up comedy and comedy clubs, museums, rollerskating, ice skating, volleyball, bowling (although I'm not good at it), hiking, bike riding and many more. I am not the "clubbing" type. I passed this stage already. I will go to lounges every once and a while in the company of a group of friends if for specific occasion or in the company of my man/boy-friend.

At this point, my taste and attraction in men have changed. I don't look before-hand for physical and obvious attraction. I'm rather attracted to someone who can hold a conversation in any topic whether deep or silly. Someone who doesn't only think about when we will become intimate but who is genuinely interested in knowing me as well. I am seeking someone who is ambitious and who is already in a set mind career-wise and most importantly who is ready to commit and settle down: a family-oriented man. I love a man who knows how and loves to cook.