Eccentricflower, 49

Seeking Something New.....Mental Stimulation... Hey Hey there and thanks for stopping by..

I am seeking a connection with someone with the potential to blossom into something special and long term. Someone that believes being best friends is an important factor in a relationship!

I just recently moved to NJ from GA, but originally from NC. I have a son, 7. He is definitely my number 1 guy, please respect that. I am a very unique person with a diverse personality. I can get along with anyone. I have several tattoos/piercings and will get more. I LOVE to be mentally stimulated. I am not a girlie girl, but TRUST I am a FEMALE with my OWN sexy swag. I DO NOT keep up with the Jones's. I have my own style. I love to laugh and be silly. I DO NOT do drama....allergic to it!

I LOVE ALL types of music.....TOTAL music junkie...from Janis Joplin, to hip hop, R&B, Alternative, Neo Soul, old school, classical, jazz, salsa & reggae. I LOVE movies (all kinds. I also like crabbing, lounges, eating out, chilling at the house, family, living life.

I LOVE ALL sports - So GUYS if you are looking for that sexy yet cool chick to bring around the guys, join you at fight parties or sport bars for the play offs and knows whats going on, I am DEFINITELY your chick!!

I am seeking a guy that is down to earth. Who can understand that I am a single mother. Who does not want children in the future. Who is romantic, simple and can be silly. Please be able to make me laugh. Let's not keep up with the Jones's!! Please have your own style, lets be original, yeah? Not really into the "video" dudes and PLEASE PULL UP PANTS UP. Definitely NOTHING sexy about that. Have a brain and back bone please. Be able to hold a stimulating conversation. Have a somewhat diverse personality, be open. It such a turn off to meet someone who can't think outside that box or have a conversation about anything. Please dont be ignorant!!

So if you are still reading this and if I have peeked your curiosity, drop me a line or two....