Cautious, 53

A change is gonna come... I am a very passionate Civil Rights activist. I am very attracted to African American women and always have been. I became active in the "struggle" when I was only 7 (thank you God for giving me the wisdom at such a young age to judge others by their character, not their color). It wasn't easy in the South in the 70's. (We had to shed a lot of blood let me just say that, no joke). I really don't know why I am not attracted to white women. Maybe it is the symbolism of how whites treated us back in those days, and maybe I need to get over it. More on that if you want to get to know me.

I never went to college, but highly self-educated. Crossword puzzles is a favorite pastime to keep the mind sharp I am also a very creative person. Play some instruments, write poetry, write songs, sing and I am currently writing my first book.

I want a woman who can support me. You don't have to join my cause, but just understand it, and be behind me and encourage me. I also need you to be grounded. I am the one who speaks before ever thinking and I can get in trouble for that. I get really worked up over how people treat others, and I need someone that can calm me down sometimes! lol. I have a lot of energy (I like playing sports too). I want someone I can walk and hold hands with, that's not afraid to show the world she is my Queen. I want someone who I can hold sitting on the beach, kissing her cheek while she tells me about her day, and watch the sunset. I want to make you candlelight dinners (Im a great cook!), and give you hot baby oil massages in the evening I love a woman with soft skin...mmmm....I've been single 4 1/2 yrs because one, I am picky, and two, I find it hard to emotionally attach to someone. Just being real! But I really WANT to. But not just ANYone..I am looking for that special someone... I hope she is reading this, and I hope she is you PEACE! G