Blucrush, 51

I'm stubborn, picky, need alot of attention and I throw tantrums. I like to be babied but at the same time dont want you to let me walk all over you. I need someone thats firm but gives me what I want. In return, I'm loyal, a very good cook and will walk through fire for the people who are close to me. Dont be a "yes dear" dude because that turns me off, ugly and dirty fingernails...turns me off. Alot of little things will turn me off and I'm sorry if this sounds too demanding but it is what it is. Most men have things they dislike as well...if this bothers you and you cant handle it with a smile, that turns me off too. I hate when a man has hurt feelings or is sensitive...brush it off.