Belindab12, 58

No Settlement Here Hi. My name's Belinda. I've accomplished alot of goals in my life except for finding the right person. I'm at a time in my life where I'm ready to have a special person to share good times and bad times with. I love to travel, go to movies, eat out and just relaxing watching a movie at home. Like to meet someone that is intelligent but not full of himself, that can relax and make me laugh. I'm a type of person that you can tell me anything and it would be just between me and you. Also, I'm a great listener and always there when you need a shoulder to lean on. But, I want the same in return. A relationship is 50/50 not 80/20 so if you're not willing to be the same then we would not get along at all. I'm a Gemini so I do convey that split personality sometimes, which means I can be outgoing one minute and be quite and shy the next. It's not that anythings wrong it's just sometimes I like to sit and observe the things going on around me. Alot of these sites are more than just a meat market, which I love having fun when the time presents itself but with diseases going around I don't like putting myself out there like that just to get off. Is there a man out there who understands what being a real friend as well as a lover means? Is there someone who loves to really go out with their woman and have a good time and have their mind on the woman they're with? I hope so. It would be a shame for me to come this far in my life and have this only part not be accomplished. I hope that this will be a chapter that I can say is finished .