Barbienoir, 2024

BarbieNoir Seeks Her Knight in Shining Armour... I am a financially independent Vice President of a Silicon Valley high tech firm and Consultant, easygoing and fun, who enjoys travel, reading, fine wines, weekends in the wine country and getting out for an occasional Harley-Davidson ride! I live a rather extravagant lifestyle, but can support it. I am looking for a friend who is also financially independent to share some time. laughs and my favorite wines and books with! I am warm, funny & told I am very attractive and well-mannered. I'm pretty emotionally secure and need to be with someone who is the same. I cannot and will not deal with drama!! Too busy for it! My lifestyle and philosophy are pretty much described best by my favorite quote from Nelson Mandela, 'Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are we not to be?' I am a 5`9" 165lbs, professional woman with a vision. I currently work in the Human Resources field, live in the San Francisco Bay Area and love to dance and travel. I love the Caribbean (Montego Bay, my favorite!).

I do like a gentleman who is kind, sensitive, generous, willing to travel and spoil me!! I also expect that he will be very family oriented! I love a good looking man with good manners. I really want to meet someone who has the maturity to handle that I very much have my own life and want to share a part of my life, not necessarily make a man my whole life... I want someone that I can spoil and he will spoil me right back. I am really looking for a best friend! Not someone that I can just live with, but someone that I cannot live without! Not into dates!

I am an avid reader, love museums and architecture, cultural events, live theatre (opera, symphony, jazz, R &B, reggae) great wine and good food! I am a travel fanatic and love it