Jaykool, 51

My son(9...only child) and I've been here for 1 1/2 yrs. We're from N.Y.C. and to be honest, fl is the last place I thought we'd ever move to, but we love it here. By choice and through effort of my own (I represented myself in court) I have sole custody of my son and wouldn't change that for anything. I love being a dad and if you had kids of your own....great. My son gets good grades, is well behaved, isn't needy, nor possesive and is willing to share me with someone. His mom is in NY and uninvolved, her loss. I work hard and like what I do for a living, go to the gym on a regular basis, do what I can to keep my son active/busy and look forward to what the future has to bring us.... the good and not so good......... and I don't fit any stereotypes you might have. I'm easy to talk to and be around, love to laugh, affectionate and giving. Not looking for anyone just like me..... where would the balance be in that? Just would like to meet a woman serious about finding the man she will spend ther rest of her life with and loves the idea of family. I'm certain that all of us here will find what we're looking for.... even if it's finding out we really didn't want what we thought we wanted.....