Dsbm, 64

I am a single black male, with 2 children one lives with me on a part-time basis. I am not into bars are partying, I do enjoy an a night on the town. That is dinner, movie, dancing or other activities, I am open to new ideas. I am not interested in one night stands, I am not a player or want to be, or come with drama. But, we all have things that we have to deal with on a day to day basis. If you are looking to be on the go all the time or looking for "fun" whatever that is ...then you seek someone else. I enjoy spending quality time with a person whether it is the arts, theater, or some interest of the other person. I am reliable, trustworthy, honest, tolerant, reserved, and easy going. I am educated and a self employed professional. I have little concern for what one does in life, if they enjoy what they are doing that is all that matters or if they don't they will make the change. I am not a sports person, but do sometimes watch them on TV. I am not into real TV, I like programming with substance. Race isn't important, but the person is....a few pounds overweight is okay, it comes with progressing through life. I am not looking for Miss Right or the perfect person, I think this would be boring...but I am looking for someone who wants to be my best friend and a partner in life. She is my biggest fan, my confidant, and friend...she will get the same in return. Cuddling, hand holding, showing of affection are plus.