Blackandbald, 63

Let's Get Together! As a Software Engineer, I really didn't go to school to learn how to express myself and feelings on paper, so bear with me as I try to do so.

Drawing from the experience encountered from previous relationships, I would say that I'm looking for a woman who can stop me dead in my tracks; one who can make me forget what I was thinking about at that moment; one who can make me say, "To hell with the deadline! I gotta get home to my woman!"; one who makes me think about her 24/7;
one whom I would gladly give my life in order to protect her own; one who can be funny as heck; one who can carry her own without having to rely on a man. Are you her?

I consider myself to be a very strong-willed and sometimes stubborn individual, but I really don't see this as a weakness. I'm sure you ladies don't want an undecisive momma's boy on your hands. I see myself as a strong, wild Black Stallion, bucking off anyone who tries to get on.

Some people say that I'm always working, or that all I care about is work, and the answer to that is that I probably wouldn't put so much effort into my career if I had the kind of woman that I briefly described above. However, the life of a Software Developer is not his/her own, since we often have to bring work home and keep our noses in a book. I jokingly tell people all the time that I should have a double PhD from all of the books I've read and continue to buy and read (and not because i want to).


To help find some balance in my life, I ventured into the world of photography and became totally hooked with it as an alternative art form. If you're into photography, that will go a long way since I hope to open a formal studio one of these days.

I suppose I could keep rambling on, but if you're interested, drop me a line and we can take it from there.

Thanks for stopping by.