Bachtorn, 69

I am content, but would like someone special Well, I've been happily divorced for years, have dated and am trying to find someone cool, fun, sexy and nice who is looking for more than just a fling, but a nice friendship/relationship.
Would like meeting a nice white lady.
Even meeting regularly would be fine. Exclusivity is not neccessary, but having a friendship would be great; with going out to dinner, movies, day trips and such being shared.
I am so not desperate or lonely. But I do want to just make a good, honest connection with someone.
I have a lot of good to share, but want it to be with someone to whom I am really attracted.
My life is quiet and calm, and I certainly enjoy pleasing a fun, open-minded person.
I take excellent care of myself; workout, run, play tennis and enjoy my life now just working three days a week in NYC (80 mile drive one way). So, driving is no problem for me. I live on the NJ/PA border. I can host too.
Also enjoy sports, reading on-line, Netflix and old b&w movies, and new movies, travel, dining out, astronomy, jazz, classical, and more.
I am as open-minded as humanly possible, I believe! So, I am obviously non-judgmental.
Being on this site, as well as Match.com, have taken their toll on me, tho, in that the responses, as well as when I finally met someone, were all less than stellar results.
So, now I can only finally meet with someone, even after we've spoken, after I've seen a recent face picture. The old physical attraction is still in vogue.
I have other pics to share as well.
I tend to be drawn to non-smoking, in shape (under my 170 lbs), curvy up top females, any race, above 45 y.o....with good dental hygiene (You'd be surprised!).
Well, hope to hear from you soon.