Black/White Dating Versus White/Black Dating

[musik2myears]

After reading everyone comments from the post, I have come to this. Since having dated white and black men, I've noticed that most black men tend to be more forward however I have been approached by white men more than enough to say that they are not as adiment about asking out a black woman. I have also been places in philly where I had to go up to a black men because I was interested. Then come to find out after talking to him that he was interested too but did not have it enough to come say something to me. Maybe its because I'm tall..dunno. However, I do agree with the posting it self. White men need to express themselves if they are interested in a black woman and not be afraid. It all comes down to we're women and if they asked us out and are turned down, then it is what it is. Rejection will happen regardless of skin color. You only live once and Nike could not have put it any better.."Just Do It." :P

[rocknrolla]

Im white and have always found black women attractive, here in england esspecially where im from (the lower to working class areas) its still pretty taboo, then again so is being a hippie lol which i am a little of. But when it comes right down to it iv never met a black woman who i honestly thought id have a chance in hell with. It mainly comes down to cultural stuff all the black women i meet are clubbers and into rap/urban lifestyles and im into rock music have long hair ect if i met a black rock chick id approach her the same way as i would a white one. And since im a shy guy that probably means she wouldnt have the slightest clue i was interested :+(

[bgg]

It really is a shame that white men are not more aggressive when it comes to dating. I am a white woman and yes, black men are much more aggressive when pursuing a woman. I think that if you are a black woman and date white men, these types of forums would probably help them break out of their shells and also, it pretty much lets them know that you are open to other races than your own.

[deloris9]

HI
YES,LITLERD
THAT IS SO TRUE,WM DONT TEND TO ASK OR APPROACH A BLK WOMAN. MAYBE CAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID OF BEING REJECTED. AND THERE ARE PLENTY BLK WM WHO WONT DATE OUTSIDE THEIR RACE BUT THERE ARE SOME WHO DO. AND IF THEY DO THEY ARE NOT GOING TO APPROACH A WM FOR THE EXACTLY THE SAME REASON,LMAO.SO THERE YOU HAVE IT,THAT WHY THERE ARENT MANY WM DATING BLK WM.LOL.. GO FIGURE

[chrissss1 (deleted)]

i think that it is you black women, think black men are entitled to ask and chase you. but the black women go asking white men for relationships, in the process of thinking it will better themselves in the process. i'v over heard a white man talk in a locker room with his friends about a black women that he was married too. you wouldnt even had believe what he had said about her, as if she wasnt even the other have of his life. i see that woman everyday now and wish i could say something.

[ladydark84]

Men that r n2 me, black, white, hispanic, or whatever ask me out wit no hesitation. It's making yourself approachable Black Women!!! Smile! Every woman can't pull off the scowl as sexy. Well except me

[softroses08]

I have been ask out by white men before and also I dated them Too.If you live out side the box you can live your life to it fullest. I personally found out that dating white men was hard because of the lack of understanding (language barrier) How we talk and on what level makes a different.The lack of any things put a strand on a relationship and when the two of you are coming from a different background make it damn near in possible.yet I am not saying that this can not happen we all have seen where it work.So try to reach out for what ever you want in this life, as for me I will still keep a open mind to who ever come my way.no matter what the color is Life is to short to focus on such a small thing such as color.men are men and as long as you get a good one why worried about what color he wrap in

softroses08

[iwantusobad (deleted)]

chrissss1 wrote: i think that it is you black women, think black men are entitled to ask and chase you. but the black women go asking white men for relationships, in the process of thinking it will better themselves in the process. i'v over heard a white man talk in a locker room with his friends about a black women that he was married too. you wouldnt even had believe what he had said about her, as if she wasnt even the other have of his life. i see that woman everyday now and wish i could say something.



Im sorry but i could not understand half of that s--- you just spewed, if you are against interracial relationships thats your own business but dont go putting all white men in that boat because quite frankly you just sound like a total moron. That was a man who was bashing his wife, not a whiteman bashig his black wife,, You disgust me

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Sorry i forgot i was here to give my 2 cent on the subject, personally ive found black women more intimidating (ONLY when around their friends) problem is I cant get that 1 on 1 to get to their softer sweeter side. How can I approach you fine women when in groups if im interested in one of you?

[softroses08]

`Hi here it go Just be your self all black lady's are not show off when they get with the girl's If you let her know that she is whom you are seeking then it should not be a problem if she got gain about her self. Try hard not to run into silly and childish one's
get a real lady and you got your self a queen for life that some real talk

[cosmopolito (deleted)]

`Hey
Why all chat, people are people, I have dated all types and can only suggest, black girls should lose the chip and support your man instead of being up in their faces and white girls stop listening to the propaganda if you want to date a black guy get on with it and quite listening to your friends. For me the biggest problem is baggage and all colours carry that.

[jewelsun (deleted)]

I. Have to say I do not like. U article. I am not moved my. U likingi. Of black women just because u are a lower cast u apeitate has a menu that sayswhat ever but. In a differ form just because u are a hippie can not mean that u culture put u down ucan allways go back. Now other races have morals. To. U mention. Still tabo just by saying that statement tells me that u are not real u may be atracted to women of color but in the wron. Condition u live atotal differ lifestyle do u feel that hip hop and jazz and other african american. Hype will help u find u self. Just because u find other races afree spirit. Can. Not mean they want to be like u all races are. Wonderful in their own rank do not. Use them as a. Defense. Because u can. Not find. Self


rocknrolla wrote: Im white and have always found black women attractive, here in england esspecially where im from (the lower to working class areas) its still pretty taboo, then again so is being a hippie lol which i am a little of. But when it comes right down to it iv never met a black woman who i honestly thought id have a chance in hell with. It mainly comes down to cultural stuff all the black women i meet are clubbers and into rap/urban lifestyles and im into rock music have long hair ect if i met a black rock chick id approach her the same way as i would a white one. And since im a shy guy that probably means she wouldnt have the slightest clue i was interested :+(

[jewelsun (deleted)]

I do not like. Race remarks about any groups I do think and feel that it is a differ between groups but this has a lot to do with cultire not race I say again I do not like to hear race remarks. So what do u do ignore it. A lot of people do they go on about there everyday. Life. Living in there own little world. Where everything. Is. Good. And out of contact. They. ignore. The. Race. Views. and brainwash. Themselves. Into. Thinkingi. That race relations. Do not excist. When I hear people making race remarks I tell them I do not like it and could u please get on a differ subject it is such as feedom of speech and it is such verbalabuse


litlerdcaboose wrote: As a rule, you see more black males with white female relationships than white males with black female relationships. For a long time, I pondered that issue. My take on it is that black men are more forward when asking for a date. They take the initiative when seeking a date. On the other hand, even though a white guy may be attracted to a black women, he usually doesn't take the initiative and ask her out. I don't think it's because he is afraid of what others might say or that he will get turned down. I just think maybe he might feel that a black woman would have no interest. No way! There are a lot of us black females out here who would love to have a white guy ask them out! Lots of us prefer interracial relationships and some of us are even seeking LTR/marriage. But, if we never get asked out, how would you know? I know that in today's relationships, females also have the right to ask a guy out, and, some of us do. However, there are still a lot of us females that love the old fashioned Boy-Meets-Girl scenario. I wonder how other black females feel about this???

Litlerdcaboose

[jewelsun (deleted)]

mityfine wrote: `i wonder about that also. I myself dont want to be to foward, but i want to be asked out by a white guy. I just dont know



Have u ever looked. Into your family tree u. Might. Find many surprises that should put an end to stereotyes u will be amazed and inpressed there is no such thing as a pure race it just dosent. Exist people who beilieve in. This poppy c--- create many problems in the comunitys. And themselves. Allways remember u dna speaks for itself pure race don't exist why people some. People are still in the dark. Beats the heck out of me

[jewelsun (deleted)]

[quote="cosmopolito"]`Hey
Why all chat, people are people, I have dated all types and can only suggest, black girls should lose the chip and support your man instead of being up in their faces and white girls stop listening to the propaganda if you want to date a black guy get on with it and quite listening to your friends. bbbbbme the biggest problem is baggage and all colours carry t

big buck maningo big lips u black men have become a thing that craves pleasure i never hear that the black man is smart the black man is a good prpvider or last but not least class all is known is broad shoulders big parts horse like it never occured to me that portrayals in tv dramas put the black man in a more ------l form where delight in the ------ order is only shown yes i guess u do grave for choc sfatistics say u black men are a classic only in the bedroom i think i would want to be known for brain not just pleasure

[jewelsun (deleted)]

litlerdcaboose wrote: As a rule, you see more black males with white female relationships than white males with black female relationships. For a long time, I pondered that issue. My take on it is that black men are more forward when asking for a date. They take the initiative when seeking a date. On the other hand, even though a white guy may be attracted to a black women, he usually doesn't take the initiative and ask her out. I don't think it's because he is afraid of what others might say or that he will get turned down. I just think maybe he might feel that a black woman would have no interest. No way! There are a lot of us black females out here who would love to have a white guy ask them out! Lots of us prefer interracial relationships and some of us are even seeking LTR/marriage. But, if we never get asked out, how would you know? I know that in today's relationships, females also have the right to ask a guy out, and, some of us do. However, there are still a lot of us females that love the old fashioned Boy-Meets-Girl scenario. I wonder how other black females feel about this???

Litlerdcaboose

My advice to u is. To do whatever turns u on but do not fall for the con artist twist enjoy but for all the right reasons some people still want to sneak around afraid of what people might say soooo to get u in the. Bed room they. Lead u on welcome to the real did u know that black americans are 10 times likely to be inprisoned for illegal drugs offenses than whites even though both groups use and sell drugs at the same rate u see people are still in the dark u and I want a better america where races can marry date its social structure will not let u there is a dangerwhen we only see the botton line of corporate affiliations without fully understanding the fine print people will go so far as tochargeda higher interest when buying a home because of. Ethnicity as u know no bank should give a loan to any who can not pay it back many african americans were charged higher interest rates with subpime loans than white americans so a few examples of what people will. Do to keep the races apart do not get me wrong date and love who ever just read the fine print