Define Love

[infinitegent (deleted)]

Define love...remember, time waits for no one! To many people if you ask them you'll get many different answers.
It has been said that love is that wonderful feeling you will know the instant you have it; that when you fall in love you will know it. It has been said that love is the solution to the problem of man's alienation from himself, from others, and from the world. That love is aim-inhibited ---.
That love is the result of an act of will. That love is the spirit that draws man's soul to the heights of truth, beauty, and goodness, and makes him be like God. That God is love. That love is holding hands. That love is the power that illumines man's actions, but so often also plunges them into darkest despair.

But do most really know what it is to be in love...or really love someone. If you're totally real with yourself, I'm sure most of what you thought was love was nothing more than ----. To take it deeper I don't think most people take the time to lay a foundation before they start sleeping together. Dating now is really nothing more than spending time together doing whatever, til I get the chance to get you in bed. Don't get me wrong, I love sex! I really get into it, love to do unspeakable freaky things to satisfy my lover. But there's has to be more than just what's between your legs to make me want you. There's nothing wrong with being a "freak". I myself am I self proclaim "freak" meaning I'll do whatever it takes within reason to fulfill and satisfy my lady...because I aim to please. And I expect the same in return, let every avenue be explored with the end result being that you get exactly what does it for you to be made satisfied and complete.

The main facet of this whole freaky/sexual thing is it's not for everybody to know or experience this with you as a individual. If you're a freak, these desires and part of yourself is not for any Joe Blow. You give and share this part of yourself with that significant other, the one you love most, the one you feel worthy to receive your most precious gifts. Also you have to know and understand that they have to be on the same accord in order for that part of your relationship to be equally satisfying. The key to it all is to be open and honest about what you want. Start with really getting to know that person before you start sleeping with them. Depending on what kind of person you're really dealing with, you may find yourself feeling empty and used. Especially if you thought this person really cared about you, and not just ------ gratification.

[softroses08]

To give my reply will simply be said Well put I couldn"t have said it better. seeking a real friendship before a relationship it what hold the bond together. --- is what it is and to me it only should be share with someone special. If love is a emotion and --- is a feeling then it should be clear that a friendship is stronger then the two. I am very sure on this one so if any one is wanted a true love , first find a true Friendship.

softroses08

[onelove748 (deleted)]

`I totally agree with you on your statement "infinitegent". But, one of the main problems is that.....most guys don't stick around long enough to get to know you if they can't get you into bed!

[infinitegent (deleted)]

onelove748 wrote: `I totally agree with you on your statement "infinitegent". But, one of the main problems is that.....most guys don't stick around long enough to get to know you if they can't get you into bed!



I agree that most men don't stay around long enough to really get to know a woman. But that' something that involves both. If you as a woman value yourself and you are interested in getting to know a man past just having --- with him. Then you have to make it known that this is what you want. If he doesn't seem to wanna put in the time to do that, then why would you spread your legs for him unless that's all you wanted. Just saying the ladies have to make these men respect you by respecting yourself first. Most men if they spend some time with you and they make a move to get you in bed. If it's not all you want is the sex, then it's as simple as saying you're not going there...I don't even really know you. If you put yourself out there like that you can trust you're going to be viewed as easy and you will get no respect from that man. 8)

[luvandhappiness (deleted)]

`Love... what is love... it is very hard to put into words because true love is on a different level and goes beyond the words that we know to describe it.

But if I where to describe to you how it makes me feel, I would say it like:

You should always let love be, let it have it's perfect way. It has a voice and should not be silent. Never limit or confine love. If love makes you happy, then be happy. if love makes you cry, cry on then. If love is lifting you up, then let it take you high upon wings of an eagle, like the rising warmth of a summers day.

Love can sooth. It can heal and bring joy and peace. It can change the mood and attitudes of people around you. Let love surround you. Love can bridge the gap and can bring order to chaos. It is a most splendid thing, love. Let love happen, never confine it. Never label nor define it for love is limitless. It is expressive and its always trying to find its way to you.

When love arrives at your door, will you know it? Will you recognize love? Can you see love for what love is? It has no smell, no color, no ulterior motives. It just is. It wants to please, wants to have a voice, wants to unite and bind two souls. It wants to be wrapped up, tied up and tangled up in use, giving joy and happiness.

Love, a many and splendid thing.

[onelove748 (deleted)]

`I totally agree with infinitegent, it's good to hear a man say, what I've always knew to be true!!!!

[onelove748 (deleted)]

luvandhappiness wrote: `Love... what is love... it is very hard to put into words because true love is on a different level and goes beyond the words that we know to describe it.

But if I where to describe to you how it makes me feel, I would say it like:

You should always let love be, let it have it's perfect way. It has a voice and should not be silent. Never limit or confine love. If love makes you happy, then be happy. if love makes you cry, cry on then. If love is lifting you up, then let it take you high upon wings of an eagle, like the rising warmth of a summers day.

Love can sooth. It can heal and bring joy and peace. It can change the mood and attitudes of people around you. Let love surround you. Love can bridge the gap and can bring order to chaos. It is a most splendid thing, love. Let love happen, never confine it. Never label nor define it for love is limitless. It is expressive and its always trying to find its way to you.

When love arrives at your door, will you know it? Will you recognize love? Can you see love for what love is? It has no smell, no color, no ulterior motives. It just is. It wants to please, wants to have a voice, wants to unite and bind two souls. It wants to be wrapped up, tied up and tangled up in use, giving joy and happiness.

Love, a many and splendid thing.





I love that kind of love, but we are easily to forget the kind of hell,heartache,and pain that it can bring as well. If both people are not in it for the right reason's.

[luvandhappiness (deleted)]

I think the reasons we end up in a "love mess" is because we ---- -- with the wrong person, nothing necessarily wrong with the people evolved, just that they are not right for each other. We should realize that you do not have to change who you are or impress anyone. The core values that make you YOU are God given and can not be changed nor should be.

Change is constant, we have to change all the time, but the core you makes you different than anyone in the universe. People should be attracted to the vibe you give off as it resonates with that person. People should be able to appreciate these thing in each other. If my motives towards you are superficial and we have nothing strong to bind the relationship it falls apart.

I've been in a "love mess" and I think most can say they have too. It's not pleasant at all. We just have to keep moving forward, learning from the past and make better choices as we move towards our future. We have to not get discouraged because we think that we've failed at love... know that maybe it was just the not the right type of person for me, that I need to make me happy. Also, we have to look at our own live to see what changes that we may need to make. It's hard to see our own faults.

6 billion people on the planet, if we keep looking, seeking and searching, staying true to ourselves, we are bound to cross path with someone that can appreciate who you are and fill the void that you need to be whole and complete.

If we don't know the purpose of a thing, we tend to abuse it.

[aquaticdamsel (deleted)]

I think love is a living thing. It can grow, wither, flourish. It must be fed and tended. It can sour or die. But it is also like imagination, in that once it is planted, it can know no limits. But still, in all of this, love is a choice. It cannot be forced on anyone. I think it is beautiful, powerful, and life changing. I think to truly find love with your soul mate would be an earth-moving experience!

ThuOutlawJoZ

[genuine6969]

To me love is when two people have a reciprocal want and desire for one another. It is when the bond that they've formed cannot be broken or tainted by outside forces. Love IS NOT when only one person is benefiting from the bond. Love is the chemical reaction in the two that makes each one feel as though they've hit the lottery for 1 million bucks by having that person in their lives! Love is feeling this way even as the months become years!