Flavor of the Month

[cocoacuddler]

I was never really attracted to white men until I got online and many were attracted to me... this made me attracted to white men. White men online (like many men and women of any race) were far more bold it seems than offline. I have never been approached by a white man offline. Online (not on an interracial site) I often get "I like black women" or "I've never been w/ a black woman before." This always made me question ones motives for wanting to chat/get to know me. Its a turn off when a white guy states his attraction is because he "never had a black woman before."

I don't want to be anyones flavor of the month or ---- inspired fantasy. I've come across a few guys that apparantly think all black women perform se---lly like the paid actresses in ebony ---- vids lol... another turn off. I think some white men are also secret ebony women lovers (and vice versa.) I of course prefer the ones that are open with their attraction to black women. I wasn't open @ first w/ my attraction because I was worried about what others might think. Now it doesn't matter.

[mannip23 (deleted)]

`It has to do with the different ways of courtship between the two races. Almost every white women than can get a man, do not like men to chase them or tell them how great they are at first. They will lose interest and move to someone else if you come on to strong at first. From the black girls I have talked to they like to be chased. Its really tough to do that when most white guys are under the impression that black girls are not attracted to them.

[sinatrafan2011]

cocoacuddler wrote: I was never really attracted to white men until I got online and many were attracted to me... this made me attracted to white men. White men online (like many men and women of any race) were far more bold it seems than offline. I have never been approached by a white man offline. Online (not on an interracial site) I often get "I like black women" or "I've never been w/ a black woman before." This always made me question ones motives for wanting to chat/get to know me. Its a turn off when a white guy states his attraction is because he "never had a black woman before."

I don't want to be anyones flavor of the month or ---- inspired fantasy. I've come across a few guys that apparantly think all black women perform se---lly like the paid actresses in ebony ---- vids lol... another turn off. I think some white men are also secret ebony women lovers (and vice versa.) I of course prefer the ones that are open with their attraction to black women. I wasn't open @ first w/ my attraction because I was worried about what others might think. Now it doesn't matter.



I agree with you cocoa you should not be the subject of someone's fetish. Just remember that there are quite a good number of white men who truly love and admire black women. They want a black woman as the of their life and their partner in a relationship. Not just a s----l fantasy.

Warm Regards
Sinatra Fan